This photo of a plant in the sunset reminds me of a friend. This friend radiates goodness and makes the world around them glow. They are loyal, trustworthy, thoughtful, selfless and have put up with my shenanigans - for way too many years. I could go on, but in summary, they’re the total package. This person is the type of friend whom I’m completely unworthy of having.
My friend has gone through some serious valleys, though no fault of their own. These things have been out of their control. It is not my place to elaborate on the specifics nor would I betray that trust, but we have all been through difficult times so can relate to the swirl of emotions that can accompany these moments. However, even in the struggle, their light shines so bright. In their fear, they are tenacious as they travel through the darkness. In the questions, there is the drive for truth. In the unknown, they show amazing endurance as they navigate choppy, deep waters. In the struggle, there is unending compassion and grace for others.
I have heard the stories, watched the events unfold and not for one second perceived any of these moments as weakness. I see an amazing person, with unbelievable grit and determination who continues to grow and love in the most incredible of ways even through the most difficult of circumstances. No, weakness is never a word I would think of to describe them, but instead words like heroic, courageous, and brave come to mind.
Keep walking towards the light, my friends. Keep walking. Even if its one day, one minute or just one step at a time. Even if you feel like you aren’t making much progress. Even if you struggle to find the strength. Just. Keep. Walking. Because, what you don’t see is your own light and how brightly is shines for others. Even as you’re passing through the valley, you have a light. Although it may feel dim or even invisible to you, it is there. Don’t let others or the voices in your head extinguish it. Share your stories with those you trust most. You often don’t know how that light gives others courage to keep walking too. We need you, and we need each other.
Peace and love my friends. Never underestimate the power of your lights.
